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Social Would You Rather Questions

Say the wrong thing confidently or the right thing too late. Lose one close friend or gain fifty acquaintances. Know what everyone really thinks of you — or never wonder again.

Uncomfortable in the way good conversation is. Best with people you already like.

Questions in this deck

The full list.

  1. 1

    have everyone read your last 10 texts or have everyone watch your last 10 minutes of screen time?

  2. 2

    always say the wrong thing confidently or always say the right thing too late?

  3. 3

    be invited everywhere and go nowhere or be invited nowhere but always have plans?

  4. 4

    lose one close friend or gain fifty acquaintances?

  5. 5

    know what everyone really thinks of you or never wonder again?

  6. 6

    be the funniest person in your group or the most trusted?

  7. 7

    have one friend who knows everything or ten who know a little?

  8. 8

    never be left on read or never have to reply?

  9. 9

    host every gathering or never host but always attend?

  10. 10

    apologize first every time or never have to apologize?

  11. 11

    be overheard praising someone or overhear praise about yourself?

  12. 12

    remember every name or have everyone remember yours?

  13. 13

    leave a party early and feel fine or stay late and regret it?

  14. 14

    have one difficult friend who is honest or five easy ones who aren't?

  15. 15

    be the first to text or the one who is always texted?

  16. 16

    say no clearly or be asked less often?

  17. 17

    have a reputation you earned or one you didn't but enjoy?

  18. 18

    make a good first impression or a lasting third one?

  19. 19

    be interesting or be interested?

  20. 20

    have a group chat that never stops or one that went quiet years ago?

  21. 21

    be told about a rumour or never hear it?

  22. 22

    be the person who organises or the person who shows up?

  23. 23

    keep in touch with everyone loosely or with three people properly?

  24. 24

    be forgiven quickly or be understood slowly?

  25. 25

    never be gossiped about or never gossip?

  26. 26

    always be the one who suggests the plan or always be the one who agrees to it?

  27. 27

    have your voice notes played back to you or your old messages read aloud?

  28. 28

    be slightly misunderstood by many or completely known by two?

  29. 29

    be the last to hear news or the one everyone tells first?

  30. 30

    never feel awkward again or never make anyone else feel awkward again?

  31. 31

    have a huge birthday you did not plan or a quiet one you did?

  32. 32

    be easy to talk to or easy to trust?

  33. 33

    always know when someone is lying to be kind or never know?

  34. 34

    be left out once and told why or included always and never sure you belong?

  35. 35

    have a friendship that fades gently or one that ends with a real conversation?

  36. 36

    be remembered for one great evening or liked steadily for years?

  37. 37

    always have something to say or be comfortable saying nothing?

  38. 38

    cancel plans guilt free or never want to cancel?

  39. 39

    have a friend who is always late but always comes or one who is punctual and often does not?

  40. 40

    be the person people call at 3am or the person people call when things go well?

  41. 41

    have every compliment you give believed or every compliment you get believed by you?

  42. 42

    say the hard thing and be right or stay quiet and keep the peace?

  43. 43

    be underestimated or be slightly overestimated?

  44. 44

    have a group chat you love muting or one you check too often?

  45. 45

    meet someone new every week or go deeper with the people you have?

  46. 46

    always be introduced properly or never need an introduction?

  47. 47

    be forgiven for something you did or apologised to for something you did not deserve?

  48. 48

    have your worst photo widely shared or your worst opinion quoted accurately?

  49. 49

    be the friend who remembers birthdays or the friend who turns up when it matters?

  50. 50

    have one enemy who is honest or ten people who are politely distant?

  51. 51

    be told you have changed or be told you have not at all?

  52. 52

    always get the last word or never need it?

  53. 53

    have a reputation for being fun or for being reliable?

  54. 54

    be good at goodbyes or good at hellos?

  55. 55

    have someone defend you when you are not there or tell you the truth when you are?

  56. 56

    be able to leave any conversation gracefully or never want to leave one?

  57. 57

    know why you were not invited or never find out?

  58. 58

    have three close friends in different cities or twenty near you who you rarely see?

  59. 59

    be the one who makes the group laugh or the one who keeps it together?

  60. 60

    always reply the same day or be known for replying eventually but properly?

  61. 61

    have an awkward silence with someone you like or easy small talk with someone you do not?

  62. 62

    be publicly thanked or privately relied upon?

  63. 63

    be the newest person in a close group or the oldest friend in a group that has moved on?

  64. 64

    have your advice ignored and be right or taken and be wrong?

  65. 65

    never be asked for a favour again or never be able to say no?

  66. 66

    be great at parties and drained after or fine at them and fine after?

  67. 67

    hear every kind thing said about you or every honest thing?

  68. 68

    have a friendship survive a long silence or one that needs constant upkeep?

  69. 69

    say sorry too often or not often enough?

  70. 70

    be known as the organiser or the one who makes it fun once there?

  71. 71

    be recognised everywhere in your town or anonymous anywhere you go?

  72. 72

    have a falling out you can explain or a drift you cannot?

  73. 73

    always be honest about how you are or always be told the truth about how others are?

  74. 74

    have your kindness noticed or your effort noticed?

  75. 75

    be the friend people bring along or the friend people make plans for?

  76. 76

    have a small circle that never changes or a wider one that keeps refreshing?

  77. 77

    be good at reading a room or good at changing it?

  78. 78

    be told a secret you must keep or be kept out of it entirely?

  79. 79

    have someone speak highly of you to strangers or kindly of you to your face?

  80. 80

    be the person who ends the night or the one who starts it?

  81. 81

    have one friendship you have to work at or several that cost nothing and give little?

  82. 82

    always show up early or be the one everyone waits for and forgives?

  83. 83

    have a nickname you did not choose or no nickname at all?

  84. 84

    be respected by people you barely know or adored by three?

  85. 85

    be asked your opinion constantly or never have to give one?

  86. 86

    have your embarrassing moment forgotten by everyone but you or remembered fondly by everyone?

  87. 87

    be the one who apologises to end it or the one who waits and is right?

  88. 88

    have a friend who challenges you or one who always agrees?

  89. 89

    be known for what you do or for how you make people feel?

  90. 90

    keep a friendship going across time zones or let it rest and pick it up perfectly years later?

  91. 91

    be comfortable in a crowd or brilliant one to one?

  92. 92

    have people assume you are busy or assume you are always free?

  93. 93

    be the first to say you were wrong or never need to?

  94. 94

    have every plan confirmed a week ahead or have friends who just turn up?

  95. 95

    be the quiet one who is listened to or the loud one who is enjoyed?

  96. 96

    have a long friendship with gaps or a short one with no gaps at all?

  97. 97

    be invited out of habit or invited because they thought of you?

  98. 98

    be the one who checks in or the one who is checked on?

  99. 99

    have your secrets safe with everyone or have nothing worth keeping secret?

  100. 100

    be liked immediately and slowly less or take years to be liked and then always?

Questions people ask

Is this deck harsh?

Honest rather than harsh. Hard is the deck that hurts.

Good for a group?

Very — it's the one where people start interrupting each other.

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